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June 12, 2008
by ladysuki
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Human Metrics – I'm E.S.F.J.!

Saw this from Wenzz. Myers-Brigg personality test on facebook: http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/JTypes1.htm. IF u bother to read, u can juz read what I bold-ed.. hahaha.. hear say, organisations make interviewees do this test during their interviews!!

Identify your personal type in Jung Typology Test. According to the Jung – Myers-Briggs typology all people can be classified using four criteria:
Extroversion – Introversion, Sensing – Intuition
Thinking – Feeling, Judging – Perceiving.
Different combinations of the criteria determine a type.

ESFJ type description by D.Keirsey
: Guardian™ Portrait of the Provider (ESFJ)

Providers take it upon themselves to insure the health and welfare of those in their care, but they are also the most sociable of all the Guardians, and thus are the great nurturers of social institutions such as schools, churches, social clubs, and civic groups. Providers are very likely more than ten percent of the population, and this is fortunate for the rest of us, because friendly social service is a key to their nature. Wherever they go, Providers happily give their time and energy to make sure that the needs of others are met, and that social functions are a success.

Highly cooperative themselves, Providers are skilled in maintaining teamwork among their helpers, and are also tireless in their attention to the details of furnishing goods and services. They make excellent chairpersons in charge of dances, banquets, class reunions, charity fund-raisers, and the like. They are without peer as masters of ceremonies, able to speak publicly with ease and confidence. And they are outstanding hosts or hostesses, knowing everyone by name, and seemingly aware of what everyone’s been doing. Providers love to entertain, and are always concerned about the needs of their guests, wanting to make sure that all are involved and provided for.

Friendly, outgoing, neighborly – in a word, Providers are gregarious, so much so that they can become restless when isolated from people. They love to talk with others, and will often strike up a conversation with strangers and chat pleasantly about any topic that comes to mind. Friendships matter a great deal to Providers, and their conversations with friends often touch on good times from years past. Family traditions are also sacred to them, and they carefully observe birthdays and anniversaries. In addition, Providers show a delightful fascination with news of their friends and neighbors. If we wish to know what’s been going on in the local community, school, or church, they’re happy to fill us in on all the details.

Providers are extremely sensitive to the feelings of others, which makes them perhaps the most sympathetic of all the types, but which also leaves them somewhat self-conscious, that is, highly sensitive to what others think of them. Loving and affectionate themselves, they need to be loved in return. In fact, Providers can be crushed by personal criticism, and are happiest when given ample appreciation both for themselves personally and for the tireless service they give to others.

ESFJ type description by J. Butt and M.M. Heiss
: Extraverted Sensing Feeling Judging

Guardians of birthdays, holidays and celebrations, ESFJs are generous entertainers. They enjoy and joyfully observe traditions and are liberal in giving, especially where custom prescribes.

All else being equal, ESFJs enjoy being in charge. They see problems clearly and delegate easily, work hard and play with zest. ESFJs, as do most SJs, bear strong allegiance to rights of seniority. They willingly provide service (which embodies life’s meaning) and expect the same from others.

ESFJs are easily wounded. And when wounded, their emotions will not be contained. They by nature “wear their hearts on their sleeves,” often exuding warmth and bonhomie, but not infrequently boiling over with the vexation of their souls. Some ESFJs channel these vibrant emotions into moving dramatic performances on stage and screen.

Strong, contradictory forces consume the ESFJ. Their sense of right and wrong wrestles with an overwhelming rescuing, ‘mothering’ drive. This sometimes results in swift, immediate action taken upon a transgressor, followed by stern reprimand; ultimately, however, the prodigal is wrested from the gallows of their folly, just as the noose tightens and all hope is lost, by the very executioner!

An ESFJ at odds with self is a remarkable sight. When a decision must be made, especially one involving the risk of conflict (abhorrent to ESFJs), there ensues an in-house wrestling match between the aforementioned black-and-white Values and the Nemesis of Discord. The contender pits self against self, once firmly deciding with the Right, then switching to Prudence to forestall hostilities, countered by unswerving Values, ad exhaustium, winner take all.

As caretakers, ESFJs sense danger all around–germs within, the elements without, unscrupulous malefactors, insidious character flaws. The world is a dangerous place, not to be trusted. Not that the ESFJ is paranoid; ‘hyper-vigilant’ would be more precise. And thus they serve excellently as protectors, outstanding in fields such as medical care and elementary education.

Functional Analysis:
1) Extraverted Feeling

ESFJs live in their Extraverted Feeling functioning. Feeling, a Rational (i.e., deciding) function, expresses opinions easily in the E world of objects and people. ESFJs have the ability to express warmth, rage, and a range of other emotions. Actions are encouraged or rebuked based on how they affect other people, especially people near and dear to the ESFJ. This type’s vocal decisiveness predisposes many of its number to facility with administration and supervision.

2) Introverted Sensing

The secondary Sensing function aids and abets the dominant Fe in that sensate data is collected and at once compared with the inner forms or standards. Data on which decisions are made are thus focused and given a contrast which tends to be stronger and clearer than the original stimuli. The strengthening effect of Si on Fe may be responsible for this type’s reputation for wearing their “hearts on their sleeves.” At any rate, ESFJs reflect the “black and white” view of reality which is common to the SJ types.

3) Extraverted iNtuition

Intuition is tertiary–as the ESFJ matures, and as situations arise which call for suspension of criticism, Ne is allowed to play. Under the leadership of the Fe function, iNtuition allows for a loosening of the more rigid Si rights and wrongs; teasing and slapstick humor emerge. ESFJs are also capable of discerning patterns and philosophies, but such perceiving is subject to the weakness of the tertiary position, and the results often lack the variety and complexity of connections that more complex systems require.

4) Introverted Thinking

The inferior Ti function may rarely be expressed. In fact, ESFJs may take affront at the aloof, detached nature of dominant Ti types, or conversely, be drawn to them. Some ESFJs construct rationale which have the appearance of (Jungian) Thinking logic, but under scrutiny are in fact command performances of “Thinking in the service of Feeling,” (i.e., Thinking-like conclusions which do not obey the tenets of impersonal logic; they rather construct scenarios from only those “hard, cold facts” which support the conclusion reached by the dominant Extraverted Feeling function.
To wit: You don’t sew with a fork, so I see no reason to eat with knitting needles. — Miss Piggy, on eating Chinese Food

Hmmmmm.. seems like… none of my character analysis analayzes I should be a computer anlayst.. Duhz!

June 10, 2008
by ladysuki
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Monday-NO-BLUE! ^.^

WOoHOoo~~ i love resting on Mondays!! Heehee..

i slept till 12 noon.. and met up with Lui for some retail therapy! Keke.. I’ve got several items on my shopping list~ Heehee.. from Shaw, to Far East, to Taka.. Wisma.. and Cineleisure, then back to Shaw for the 《KungFu Panda》 movie!! Haha! Many frenz say I’m watching myself on screen~~~ heh heh.. very funny, at some parts, some of the audience even clapped~ Haha I love such audience~~ Hee.. guess Panda is gonna become a more popular character from now on! But hor… dunno if it’s the movie or I was too tired or had eaten too full, i dozed off in the first quarter! Haha.. we really ate ALOT! Gelato Ice-cream, Tako balls, Korean Rice cake, Korean BBQ pork/chicken sticks, Korean Meatballs.. Popcorn.. Nacho.. kekeke..

Great day spent. Good nights!! :p

P/S:
Glad tat JS hv passed the “surprise” to the “photo-taking-siao”..
Hee.. am gonna meet up with u two real soon!! HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! 😀

June 10, 2008
by ladysuki
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Congrats to my Laoda, Kris!

It was a weekend filled with love in the air, sooo many couples getting married!! Must have been a super auspicious date!!! Haha..

After the run, i didn’t allow myself to fall asleep. Took a nice bath, settled down.. oh.. 2 of my customized nails dropped.. i even make another trip downstairs to Nailova, thinking of sticking ’em back there. Too bad, they were closed for the day. So back home, it’s relax time, TV time! Hehee.. I juz didn’t wana go to sleep, I only need a cup of Old Town White Coffee!! Haha!! Until it’s about time to get ready for the wedding dinner at night.

Hoho.. a very peaceful and quiet dinner, compared to the one I went the day before. Haha.. we all arrived quite early for the cocktail session, which I concluded, Cocktail Session = Tok-Cok Session. Hehee.. another Singtel “gathering”. Saw familiar faces like Lie Fong who couldn’t recognise me, Renee who chopped off her long hair, and Abe who was the emcee for the night… and the special appearance we all been “excited” about.. KAPPA who started off saying, “Peiyi! So how?”!! Haha.. As for the bride, my laoda Kris, beautiful lorrr, she slimmed alot~! When we were bidding goodbye at nite, she told me “培漪啊~你老大我,終于嫁出去啦~” Hahaha….


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June 10, 2008
by ladysuki
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Saucony 100+ Passion Run

my phone went ringing and ringing..

像孩子依赖着肩膀 像眼泪依赖着脸庞
你就像天使一样 给我依赖 给我力量
像诗人依赖着月亮 像海豚依赖海洋
你是天使 你是天使 你是我最初和最後的天堂

我: “eh-hem… halo…yah… ”
砡: “你起來了嗎?你還可以跑嗎?”
我: “不知道 leh.. ”
***沉默了半分鐘***
我: “現在幾點啦?”
砡: “六點多了!”
我: “OH SHIT! ok ok ok.. meet 你七點在樓下!”
砡:” ok lah..我們搭 cab 過去~ remember to bring your runner-bib.”

i didn’t set any alarms.. i didn’t know i will sleep all the way till dawn either. i didn’t even remember how i fell asleep on bed.. coz i dropped dead ard 7pm the night before. Haha.. rushed and packed like an ah-siao~ sunblock, my running suit, my visor, on the com to load MAYDAY playlist into my Zen Stone, changed the impt cards and cash into another slim wallet, and all into my sporty adi bag. oh ya.. runner-bib (heng she reminded me!) Off we go for the Passion Run at East Coast Park, it was a beautiful beautiful morning with a beautiful beautiful weather~~ no sun, no rain, but lotsa wind! Haha.. i even felt cold after the run. Haa.. this time round, I didn’t know my timing, but i guess it’s ard 40plus min.. almost the same lah. We were crazily onz for the ECP Hong Kong Cafe that we were willing to walk another 2.5km after the run, but later come to know that it only opens at 12noon. Kaoz.. we shall settle for Burger King breakfast then. Hehehe…

Overall, a wonderful run I didn’t regret going. 🙂

UPDATES (2008.06.10 16:21PM):
Forgot to mention.. Senior Minister Goh Chok Tong clapped and cheered for our run to kick off!! Hahahaha.. first time i saw him wor.. hahahaa…. too bad we din bring our phone along!! So.. no photos!!!! =X


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