特别献给吃饱太空闲，每天没事就关心别人几时要结婚的人.

“…Eh, 6 years ago some fortune teller said I would get married, it did not materialise and then the year after, they took a shot again. I’m not saying I enjoy single-dom so much so that it is a lifelong spinster pledge, but please stop predicting my marital status just because I’m in a relationship.

Sure it’s one or the other, a ‘happy’ forecast of bliss ever after, a long ‘drawn out’ companionship or a ‘tragic’ breakup from irreconcilable differences. How about not telling me what’s going to happen? How about letting me find out for myself what lies ahead instead of drawing out my future floor plan? It’s like telling everyone you are pregnant even before you took a pregnancy test.

Reporter: Are you getting married soon?
Me: I’m not against marriage but it’s not in the pipeline anytime soon.
Headlines: She’s getting married!

Reporter: Do you like children?
Me: I love kiddies!
Headlines: She’s getting married and having children!

Ok, I loved the idea of happily ever after, and I do blame walt disney for all the fairy tale endings. But being together sometimes just means, BEING TOGETHER. It doesn’t mean getting hitched, or popping out babies. Just because I do not oppose of something, does not mean that I endorse it.

I think this discussion is over.
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Quoted from Stef Sun