{"id":4796,"date":"2009-11-10T11:33:16","date_gmt":"2009-11-10T03:33:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ladysuki.net\/blog\/?p=4796"},"modified":"2009-11-10T11:33:16","modified_gmt":"2009-11-10T03:33:16","slug":"congrats-your-head","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ladysuki.net\/blog\/?p=4796","title":{"rendered":"congrats your head"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u7279\u522b\u732e\u7ed9\u5403\u9971\u592a\u7a7a\u95f2\uff0c\u6bcf\u5929\u6ca1\u4e8b\u5c31\u5173\u5fc3\u522b\u4eba\u51e0\u65f6\u8981\u7ed3\u5a5a\u7684\u4eba.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;&#8230;Eh, 6 years ago some fortune teller said I would get married, it did not materialise and then the year after, they took a shot again. I&#8217;m not saying I enjoy single-dom so much so that it is a lifelong spinster pledge, but please stop predicting my marital status just because I&#8217;m in a relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Sure it&#8217;s one or the other, a &#8216;happy&#8217; forecast of bliss ever after, a long &#8216;drawn out&#8217; companionship or a &#8216;tragic&#8217; breakup from irreconcilable differences. How about not telling me what&#8217;s going to happen? How about letting me find out for myself what lies ahead instead of drawing out my future floor plan? It&#8217;s like telling everyone you are pregnant even before you took a pregnancy test.<\/p>\n<p>Reporter: Are you getting married soon?<br \/>\nMe: I&#8217;m not against marriage but it&#8217;s not in the pipeline anytime soon.<br \/>\nHeadlines: She&#8217;s getting married!<\/p>\n<p>Reporter: Do you like children?<br \/>\nMe: I love kiddies!<br \/>\nHeadlines: She&#8217;s getting married and having children!<\/p>\n<p>Ok, I loved the idea of happily ever after, and I do blame walt disney for all the fairy tale endings. But being together sometimes just means, BEING TOGETHER. It doesn&#8217;t mean getting hitched, or popping out babies. Just because I do not oppose of something, does not mean that I endorse it.<\/p>\n<p>I think this discussion is over.<br \/>\n..&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><em>Quoted from <a href=\"http:\/\/grandenough.blogspot.com\/2009\/04\/congrats-your-head.html\" target=\"_blank\">Stef Sun<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n\n<!-- Facebook Like Button v1.9.6 BEGIN [http:\/\/blog.bottomlessinc.com] -->\n<iframe src=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/plugins\/like.php?href=https%3A%2F%2Fladysuki.net%2Fblog%2F%3Fp%3D4796&amp;layout=standard&amp;show_faces=false&amp;width=450&amp;action=like&amp;colorscheme=light\" scrolling=\"no\" frameborder=\"0\" allowTransparency=\"true\" style=\"border:none; overflow:hidden; width:450px; height: 30px; align: left; margin: 2px 0px 2px 0px\"><\/iframe>\n<!-- Facebook Like Button END -->\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u7279\u522b\u732e\u7ed9\u5403\u9971\u592a\u7a7a\u95f2\uff0c\u6bcf\u5929\u6ca1\u4e8b\u5c31\u5173\u5fc3\u522b\u4eba\u51e0\u65f6\u8981\u7ed3\u5a5a\u7684\u4eba. &#8220;&#8230;Eh, 6 years ago some fortune teller said I would get married, it did not materialise and then the year after, they took a shot again. I&#8217;m not saying I enjoy single-dom so much so that it is a &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/ladysuki.net\/blog\/?p=4796\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","enabled":false}}},"categories":[3],"tags":[144],"class_list":["post-4796","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-ifeelithinkishare","tag-reading"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p4tQm9-1fm","jetpack_likes_enabled":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ladysuki.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4796","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ladysuki.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ladysuki.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ladysuki.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ladysuki.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4796"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/ladysuki.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4796\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ladysuki.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4796"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ladysuki.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=4796"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ladysuki.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=4796"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}