{"id":381,"date":"2006-04-07T17:30:00","date_gmt":"2006-04-07T09:30:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ladysuki.net\/blog\/?p=381"},"modified":"2006-04-07T17:30:00","modified_gmt":"2006-04-07T09:30:00","slug":"defensive-ness-can-be-scary","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ladysuki.net\/blog\/?p=381","title":{"rendered":"Defensive-ness.. can be scary."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>there was a lil&#8217; dispute she was scolding him &#8220;u dun tell me dunno or not so sure! i dun wana hear such words~~ wad if the director comes in and ask me where is the gal? i&#8217;m not in position to say i authorise her leh! \u6211\u624d\u4e0d\u8981\u5403\u8fd9\u79cd\u6b7b\u732bleh!!!! blah blah blah..and so on..&#8221; shocking to hear all this suddenly leh.. juz one minute ago, we were kidding with her&#8230;. -__-&#8220;<\/p>\n<p>and add on to my surprise, the guy who was bein reprimanded was our office most courteous and polite nice guy.. always hanging a smile on his face.. these words always comes out frm him \u4e0d\u597d\u610f\u601d leh\uff0c\u9ebb\u70e6\u4f60\u4e86\uff0c\u8c22\u8c22\u4f60leh..thanks leh..<\/p>\n<p>hmmmmm he was oso nice enough to hold back his temper le.. she juz kept ranting on and on.. i oso din wana interrupt, coz knowing her, i noe any help at this moment wil juz make things worse, if u made her feel we are siding the guy, she might be  defensive and carry on non-stop.. one of the guys who all this while buay gum with her de, said, &#8220;\u54c7\u4f60\u7684\u4eba\u6d46\u597d\u554a\uff0c\u7ad9\u5728\u90a3\u91cc\u6328\u9a82\uff1f\u662f\u6211\uff0c\u4e00\u5df4\u638c\u98de\u8fc7\u53bb\u4e86\uff01&#8221; :O<\/p>\n<p>i msn the guy.. asked is he ok.. he first thing said thanks for askin (see? thnx again! haha but this kinda thks is sincere) he admitted he was a lil&#8217; pissed off though.. but did nt wana magnify the fuss la.. <\/p>\n<p>followed by a msn window frm her.. askin if we got scared by her juz now.. if yes, sorrie.. =_= i guess sorry shld not be said to us bah?! :-\/ actually din felt like replyin de.. but out of courtesy, i juz said, &#8220;juz forget abt it bah =)&#8221; then i exited the multiple chat le.. <\/p>\n<p>anyway, my view of all this nonsense is.. EVEN EVEN EVEN the guy is at fault.. she is not even managerial level lor.. wad position is she in to scold someone in the face, in front of EVERYONE of us.. in office?!?! \u6211\u4e0d\u53ef\u8ba4\u540c\u8fd9\u6837\u7684\u505a\u6cd5. i oso experienced her formality and defensiveness before la.. i noe how it feels.<\/p>\n\n<!-- Facebook Like Button v1.9.6 BEGIN [http:\/\/blog.bottomlessinc.com] -->\n<iframe src=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/plugins\/like.php?href=https%3A%2F%2Fladysuki.net%2Fblog%2F%3Fp%3D381&amp;layout=standard&amp;show_faces=false&amp;width=450&amp;action=like&amp;colorscheme=light\" scrolling=\"no\" frameborder=\"0\" allowTransparency=\"true\" style=\"border:none; overflow:hidden; width:450px; height: 30px; align: left; margin: 2px 0px 2px 0px\"><\/iframe>\n<!-- Facebook Like Button END -->\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>there was a lil&#8217; dispute she was scolding him &#8220;u dun tell me dunno or not so sure! i dun wana hear such words~~ wad if the director comes in and ask me where is the gal? i&#8217;m not in &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/ladysuki.net\/blog\/?p=381\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","enabled":false}}},"categories":[15],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-381","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncomplicatezz-blog"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p4tQm9-69","jetpack_likes_enabled":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ladysuki.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/381","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ladysuki.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ladysuki.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ladysuki.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ladysuki.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=381"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/ladysuki.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/381\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ladysuki.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=381"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ladysuki.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=381"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ladysuki.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=381"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}