{"id":3104,"date":"2009-03-15T02:38:20","date_gmt":"2009-03-14T18:38:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ladysuki.net\/blog\/?p=3104"},"modified":"2009-03-15T02:38:20","modified_gmt":"2009-03-14T18:38:20","slug":"apad-21032009-say-no","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ladysuki.net\/blog\/?p=3104","title":{"rendered":"A.P.A.D 14.03.2009 &#8211; Say No"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/img.photobucket.com\/albums\/v699\/peiyiwu\/APAD20090314.jpg?w=550\"  data-recalc-dims=\"1\"><br \/>\nLocation: My bed<\/p>\n<p>What noise do you want to make.. hmmmmmmmm how about saying a &#8220;NO&#8221;? Well, it has always kept me pondering.. how many of us really know how to say NO?<\/p>\n<p>Daddy expects more money allowance from you, do you say NO?<\/p>\n<p>Your buddy is asking you out for drinks the 5th time in the week, your wife is grumbling, do you say NO to your buddy?<\/p>\n<p>Your new moved-in indian neighbour is offering you some curry, you do not take spicy, do you say NO?<\/p>\n<p>Boss is asking you to work overtime during the weekends and public holidays, do you say NO?<\/p>\n<p>Your best-est friend needs a loan from you, do you say NO?<\/p>\n<p>Some relative is moving in for awhile, taking up your bedroom, do you say NO?<\/p>\n<p>Your gf needs you to sign an installment for her purchase, do you say NO?<\/p>\n<p>Your colleague whom you detested, is asking for your help in work, do you say NO?<\/p>\n<p>A suitor is pestering you out for a date, do you say NO?<\/p>\n<p>Some very tone-deaf friend is asking you out for a K-session, do you say NO?<\/p>\n<p>At many many times, I say No.. I was being labeled as cold, selfish, unthoughtful, inconsiderate, self-centered and unfriendly.. is there a book 101 ways to say NO for dummies?<\/p>\n<p>p\/s: Above are my shopping harvest for the day. \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n\n<!-- Facebook Like Button v1.9.6 BEGIN [http:\/\/blog.bottomlessinc.com] -->\n<iframe src=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/plugins\/like.php?href=https%3A%2F%2Fladysuki.net%2Fblog%2F%3Fp%3D3104&amp;layout=standard&amp;show_faces=false&amp;width=450&amp;action=like&amp;colorscheme=light\" scrolling=\"no\" frameborder=\"0\" allowTransparency=\"true\" style=\"border:none; overflow:hidden; width:450px; height: 30px; align: left; margin: 2px 0px 2px 0px\"><\/iframe>\n<!-- Facebook Like Button END -->\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Location: My bed What noise do you want to make.. hmmmmmmmm how about saying a &#8220;NO&#8221;? Well, it has always kept me pondering.. how many of us really know how to say NO? Daddy expects more money allowance from you, &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/ladysuki.net\/blog\/?p=3104\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","enabled":false}}},"categories":[19],"tags":[27],"class_list":["post-3104","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-a-photo-a-day","tag-apad"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p4tQm9-O4","jetpack_likes_enabled":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ladysuki.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3104","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ladysuki.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ladysuki.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ladysuki.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ladysuki.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3104"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/ladysuki.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3104\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ladysuki.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3104"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ladysuki.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3104"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ladysuki.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3104"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}