{"id":232,"date":"2005-09-22T16:31:00","date_gmt":"2005-09-22T08:31:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ladysuki.net\/blog\/?p=232"},"modified":"2005-09-22T16:31:00","modified_gmt":"2005-09-22T08:31:00","slug":"music-andy-lau-%e5%86%8d%e8%af%b4%e4%b8%80%e6%ac%a1-%e6%88%91%e7%88%b1%e4%bd%a0-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ladysuki.net\/blog\/?p=232","title":{"rendered":"music: Andy Lau &#8211; \u518d\u8bf4\u4e00\u6b21 \u6211\u7231\u4f60"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Here&#8217;s another article tat can make me cry..<br \/>duno if it&#8217;s a real story..<br \/>but i feel like slappin him when he shouted at his mum..<\/p>\n<p><i><u>The Story of One-eyed Mother <\/u><\/p>\n<p>My mom only had one eye. I hated her&#8230; she was such an embarrassment&#8230; She cooked for students &#038; teachers&#8230;to support the family. There was one occasion during elementary school and my mom came. I was so embarrassed. How could she do this to me? I threw her a hateful look and ran out. <\/p>\n<p>The next day at school&#8230; <br \/>&#8220;Your mom only has one eye?!?!&#8221;&#8230;eeeee said a friend. I wished my mom would just disappear from this world. So I said to my mom, &#8220;Mom&#8230; Why don&#8217;t you have the other eye?! If you&#8217;re only going to make me a laughing stock, why don&#8217;t you just die?!!!&#8221; <\/p>\n<p>My mom did not respond&#8230; I guess I felt a little bad, but at the same time, it felt good to think that I had said what I&#8217;d wanted to say all this time&#8230; <\/p>\n<p>Maybe it was! because my mom hadn&#8217;t punished me, but I didn&#8217;t think that I had hurt her feelings very badly. That night&#8230; I woke up, and went to the kitchen to get a glass of water. My mom was crying there, so quietly, as if she was afraid that she might wake me. <\/p>\n<p>I took a look at her, and then turned away. Because of the thing I had said to her earlier, there was something pinching at me in the corner of my heart. Even so, I hated my mother who was crying out of her one eye. <\/p>\n<p>So I told myself that I would grow up and become successful. Then I studied real hard. I left my mother and went to Singapore to study. Then, I got married. I bought a house of my own. Then I had kids, too&#8230; Now I&#8217;m living happily as a successful man. I like it here because it&#8217;s a place that doesn&#8217;t remind me of my mom. This happiness was getting bigger and bigger, when&#8230; What?! Who&#8217;s this?! <\/p>\n<p>It was my mother&#8230;Still with her one eye. I felt as if the whole sky was falling apart on me. Even my children ran away, scared of my mom&#8217;s eye. And I asked her, &#8220;Who are you?!&#8221; &#8220;I don&#8217;t know you!!!&#8221; as if trying to make that real. I screamed at her, &#8220;How dare you come to my house and scare my children!! GET OUT OF HERE! NOW!!!&#8221; <\/p>\n<p>And to this, my mother quietly answered, &#8220;Oh, I&#8217;m so sorry. I may have gotten the wrong address,&#8221; and she disappeared out of sight. <\/p>\n<p>Thank goodness&#8230; She doesn&#8217;t recognize me. I was quite relieved. I told myself that I wasn&#8217;t going to care, Or think about this for the rest of my life. Then a wave of relief came upon me&#8230; <\/p>\n<p>One day, a letter regarding a school reunion came to my house in Singapore. So, lying to my wife that I was going on a business trip, I went. <\/p>\n<p>After the reunion, I went down to the old shack, that I used to call a house&#8230; Just out of curiosity. There, I found my mother fallen on the cold ground. But I did not shed a single tear. She had a piece of paper in her hand&#8230;.It was a letter to me. <\/p>\n<p>&#8220;My son&#8230; <br \/>I think my life has been long enough now&#8230; <br \/>And&#8230; I wont visit Singapore anymore&#8230; <br \/>But would it be too much to ask if <br \/>I wanted you to come visit me once in a while? <br \/>I miss you so much.. <br \/>And I was so glad when I heard you were coming for the reunion. <br \/>But I decided not to go to the school. For you&#8230;&#8230; <br \/>And&#8230;.. I&#8217;m sorry that I only have one eye, <br \/>and I was an embarrassment for you. <br \/>You see, when you were very little, <br \/>you got into an accident, and lost your eye. <br \/>As a mom, I couldn&#8217;t stand watching you having <br \/>to grow up with only one eye&#8230; So I gave you mine&#8230; <br \/>I was so proud of my son <br \/>that was seeing a whole new world for me, <br \/>in my place, with that eye. <br \/>I was never upset at you for anything you did.. <br \/>The couple times that you were angry with me.. <br \/>I thought to myself, &#8216;It&#8217;s because he loves me..&#8217; <br \/>My son&#8230; Oh, my son&#8230; &#8221; <\/i><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>This message has a very deep meaning and is passed to remind people of the goodness they have enjoyed were because of others directly or indirectly. Pause a moment and consider your life! 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I hated her&#8230; she was &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/ladysuki.net\/blog\/?p=232\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","enabled":false}}},"categories":[15],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-232","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncomplicatezz-blog"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p4tQm9-3K","jetpack_likes_enabled":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ladysuki.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/232","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ladysuki.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ladysuki.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ladysuki.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ladysuki.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=232"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/ladysuki.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/232\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ladysuki.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=232"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ladysuki.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=232"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ladysuki.net\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=232"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}