{"id":2092,"date":"2008-11-23T23:47:26","date_gmt":"2008-11-23T15:47:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ladysuki.net\/blog\/?p=2092"},"modified":"2008-11-23T23:47:26","modified_gmt":"2008-11-23T15:47:26","slug":"how-to-say-no","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ladysuki.net\/blog\/?p=2092","title":{"rendered":"How to say NO?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>How do we say NO with technique.. so that people accept it readily.<br \/>\nAs usual, I did a lil survey. Hee hee.. just to find out what&#8217;s happening around me..<\/p>\n<p><b>Scenario is:<br \/>\nIf he wans to go to someplace very badly..<br \/>\nAnd with much enthusiasm, he asked for her company.<br \/>\nBut she&#8217;s not interested at all..<\/p>\n<p>Now question is:<br \/>\nHow should a gf answer?<\/b><\/p>\n<p>First I approached 2 good friends of mine&#8230;<br \/>\n(names might be masked just in case they will be posed in danger.)<\/p>\n<p><font color=\"green\">irony@drudgery says:<br \/>\njus say dun wan la!<\/font><\/p>\n<p><i>Cool.. short and sweet and straight to the point. i like it!<\/p>\n<p>Oh now see below.. here is the BEST answer so far.. <\/i><\/p>\n<p><font color=\"green\">&#8230; said:<br \/>\nshe will say: &#8220;go there for wat? that place is suxxxxxxxx!&#8221;<br \/>\n\u266a\u00fc k \u00ee said:<br \/>\nwow~ so cool ar?<br \/>\n&#8230; said:<br \/>\nyah lor, sob sob<br \/>\n\u266a\u00fc k \u00ee said:<br \/>\nwow wow<br \/>\n&#8230; said:<br \/>\ncos i also do the same to her one<\/font><\/p>\n<p><i>Next, The SibehErickoh EK. How does his gf talks to him?<\/i><br \/>\n<font color=\"green\">ek says:<br \/>\neeee<br \/>\n\u266a\u00fc k \u00ee says:<br \/>\nHuh?<br \/>\nek says:<br \/>\ntats my answer &#8220;eeee&#8221;<br \/>\n\u266a\u00fc k \u00ee says:<br \/>\nWAHAHA ohhhhhhhhhh Ok!<\/font><\/p>\n<p><i>Very cool too~!<br \/>\nTOO BAD, the King of all Surveys.. VT is absent. \ud83d\ude41<br \/>\nSo I approached a few of the galfriends to see how they say NO to their bfs.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><font color=\"green\">c  y \u30c4 says:<br \/>\nshow him the &#8220;huh? u want to go there arh?&#8221; face<br \/>\ntell him &#8220;not interested.&#8221; directly<\/p>\n<p>\u5927\u5927 &#8211; Day 14 says:<br \/>\nI dun feel ike going that place becos of whatever reason<br \/>\neg. too crowded. You ask your friends to accompany you lor<\/p>\n<p>Lady Yen \u0669(\u25cf\u032e\u032e\u0303\u2022\u0303)\u06f6 says:<br \/>\nehhh a bit hard to reject..<br \/>\ni will tell him and explain why<br \/>\nsee if he will seek understanding<\/font><\/p>\n<p><i>HA HA.. so this is what&#8217;s happening..<\/p>\n<p>So I guess.. being honest,<br \/>\nstraight to the point is still the best and most comfortable approach bah!! \ud83d\ude00<\/p>\n<p>Any more interesting answers? *winkz<\/i><\/p>\n\n<!-- Facebook Like Button v1.9.6 BEGIN [http:\/\/blog.bottomlessinc.com] -->\n<iframe src=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/plugins\/like.php?href=https%3A%2F%2Fladysuki.net%2Fblog%2F%3Fp%3D2092&amp;layout=standard&amp;show_faces=false&amp;width=450&amp;action=like&amp;colorscheme=light\" scrolling=\"no\" frameborder=\"0\" allowTransparency=\"true\" style=\"border:none; overflow:hidden; width:450px; height: 30px; align: left; margin: 2px 0px 2px 0px\"><\/iframe>\n<!-- Facebook Like Button END -->\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>How do we say NO with technique.. so that people accept it readily. 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